What do you feel when other ppl accusing u doing bad thing when you dont do that bad thing. What if that person is your mom? Too sad isnt it.
If your mom accusing you for intentionally reluctant to go to your parents home bcz of the old grudge. That is totally wrong bcz the child didnt hold any grudge.
If there is, it should be long gone forgotten bcz the child knows that the heaven and the success are placed under the mother's footprint and by her mother's blessings.
How to deal with a mother's like this? The mother who has this communication trouble. Not in term of mute trouble but didnt know how to communicate well without hurting the listener's heart.
A good communication is a comforting one and not hurting other ppl' feelings.
If in a communication exist the sharp teasing, condemn, insult, taunt, and ridicule, that is not a good communication. A really patience person will lose her patience when she was provoked like that.
Therefore, watch out your speeches. Dont hurt ppl's heart. A conversation which filled with provocation, it will flawed and fail the conversation.
Finally, ppl will hate and decide to avoid speaking to you. This is what called "push factor". It is such a negative trait which we should avoid bcz it will only lead us to lose our friends.
Try to be a person who has a "pull factor". When this person talk, she draws and attracts ppl to her. When she talks, she comfort ppl's heart. If she did hurting other ppl's heartfeelings, she will stop talking bad or she apologize.
Maybe the best way is to minimize having conversation with the ppl who has this push factor bcz the more minimum that conversation, the more minimum other ppl's heartfeelings will hurt or for the misunderstanding to happens.
That's all for now. Thank you for reading.
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