How to take care of a mother

Assalamualaikum and good morning everybody.

A mother's heart is difficult to be keep but if we know how, understand her wishes, and know her behaviors, insyaallah a mother can be our bestfriend.

Importantly, we must have a thick patience, be understanding, caring, and show high respect to our mother.

Instill this pledge that our mother is everything to us, respect her wishes eventhough sometimes we disagree with her.

We should always realize and remember that mother's heart is very sensitive. Dont ever think that our mother has getting old, losing her mind or too conservative bcz these will create gap between a mother and her child.

Any misunderstanding or dispute will make her disappointed.

We as the child should learn from our mistakes, always do reflection on our speech & action.

1. Food are really sensitive to her. Everytime we eat, we MUST invite her eventhough we know that she didnt really eat that food.
2. Dont show you're smart in front of her bcz our capability begin from her. Dont ever hurt her feelings eventhough we are in the right side.
3. If she needs anything, try our best to get it immediately. Always listen to her sighs and try to fulfil her requests.
4. If she wants to go to a place, try to bring her there instantly eventhough we are busy.
5. Talk to her everyday. We should take this opportunity to tell our opinion but be careful, dont let her notices that we disagree with her bcz this will only spoil our conversation. If it is possible, ask for other family member to join the conversation.
6. Always massage her body if she complains and expresses her pain besides bringing her to see doctor. That's only when she agrees to see doctor, if not, slow talk to her softly.
7. Always be a good listener to her although you are not really interested in her story.
8. Discuss with her first if you are planning family program eventhough you are the head of the family.
9. Pray for her everyday bcz the prayers from a pious child are really needed by a mother, not the money or the wealth.
10. Dont forget to greet her everyday eventhough we are in a very tired body. Remember to treat her as our VVIPs.
11. Sometimes, buy her presents. Not the size of the presents that really matters to her, but the thought that counts.
12. Involve her in your family weekend activities.
13. If you stay far away from your mother, always call her, be it you're her child or just an in-laws. It is not a loss to pay our telephone bill for our mother which always waiting news from us. It is even more blessings our fortunes will be when we respect our mother.

If we stay far away from our mother, always go home to see our parents which always missing us.

If we give our wholehearted efforts, there is no reason for our mother to be disappointed with us. She will be tolerate with us.

Always make sure that she feels aprreciated even in her golden age. Always keep in mind that "the heaven is under her footprint".

May our children will do the same to us when we are old. Insyaallah.

Thats all for now. Thank you for reading! :)